First Time: Sex with a Woman! (Bi / Gay Story - Part 27)

 "My girlfriend Gabby REALLY surprised me when I visited her for Spring Break!"

"GAY" DOES NOT DEFINE ME!!! - (Bi / Gay Story - Part 26)

 "I'm in a relationship with a girl that I didn't seek. I thought the relationship would fade when we went long-distance. Now she wants more from me...I'm so conflicted about what to do. The only thing I know for sure is that 'GAY' should not define me!"

Gay Guy with a Girlfriend: What Should I Do?? (Bi / Gay Story - Part 25)

After my girlfriend nearly caught me in bed with a dude, I've decided to not to take any more chances. I enjoy hanging out with my girlfriend but we're going to live 2,000 miles apart for 6 months so I'm hoping the distance will help me decide whether I should keep experimenting with her or not.

The Gay Hook-Up and My Girlfriend (Bi / Gay Story - Part 24)

 "I'm away from everyone I know in Oxford for a few months. I want to do gay stuff with a nice English guy while I'm here. The problem is this girl has decided we're dating and she always wants to hang out. How am I going to have any gay hook-ups if she's always around???"

Cornered and Asked if I'm Gay. The Next Day was Bizarre. (Bi / Gay Story - Part 23)

 "Are you Gay?" - No one has ever asked me that before. When it happened, I didn't expect it. I had to think fast! Now that I've answered, I'm in a weird and totally unexpected situation.

Gay, Closeted & Drunk: an Unexpected Gay Bar Tour in London (Bi / Gay Story - Part 22)

Although I'm gay and in the closest, I've been experimenting with being out while traveling alone in Europe. I had kind of a crazy night in London last night - but this morning was genuinely STUNNING. This was not what I expected when I came to London.

First Time: Hook-Up in a Gay Club (Bi / Gay Story - Part 21)

It's 30 minutes before closing time and everyone is pairing up to go home together, probably for gay sex.  

I've barely talked to anyone in the few gay clubs I'd been in and no one tonight.  Now, all of a sudden, this guy I've never seen before is asking me to leave with him.  

I'm very nervous but I think I'm going to say yes.

Gay at Night Experiment (Bi / Gay Story - Part 20)

 After coming out to one gay friend when he came out to me, I'm still 99.9% in the closet. But I'm going to try an experiment when I travel alone for two weeks in Germany, Austria and England. No one will know what I'm doing and I can't wait!

 

 

Gay Miracle / School Field Hook Up / College Year Two (Bi / Gay Story - Part 18)

 Here's part 18 of my bi / gay story, a summary of all the gay stuff that's happened to me over the past several months. The two biggest things were completely unexpected and really quite shocking for me!

 

My Bisexual Boyfriend: Advice Needed!!!

This request for advice was posted as a comment within the last 24 hours.  Please help this woman by posting your reply in the comment box below.

Someone please help me! I want to hear from more people like this. 

My boyfriend of 3 years and best friend for 7 years told me a week ago that he was bisexual. I found online accounts and some porn. On the accounts he was having online sex with men. I'm terrified that he might be gay and hiding it. We've always had a deep love connection and I truly believe that he does love me. I wanted to leave him and he begged me to stay saying that watching gay porn every so often was enough. 

Before I found out, our sex life was okay but had died down a little bit. Now that he's told me I feel more connected to him on a personal level and the sex has been great. Our love though has always been strong. He does everything for me. He works and pays for me while I go to school. He puts up with my bitchy attitude. He says that he would rather die then ever be without me. The one thing that scares me more than anything is the fact that we are each others first. What if he wants to experience what it's like to be with a man? 

He tells me that he doesn't want to and he really is attracted to women more then men he just likes to look at porn but would never actually want sex. I don't know if this is the truth or him denying his own feelings. I'm terrified. I never thought that my life would be this complicated and painful. I really want things to work out between us. However, I can't trust him ever again and I don't want to waste my time with someone who ultimately might end up leaving me. 

I get on here and read stories about guys who truly loved their wives and just couldn't make it work and it scares me. He says he feels like a weight has been lifted off his chest now that he's told me. That's really great for him but now I'm worried constantly. I tried to talk him into doing different stuff in the bedroom...involving more stuff with his butt and he gets angry and doesn't want to do it! so does this mean that he really does just enjoy looking at it and talking about it or is he that far into denial. I'm so scared about our future.  - Mackenzie